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fuckyeahsexpositivity:

lalondes:

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE DON’T SCROLL PAST THIS.
Scarleteen is a vital queer and trans positive sexual health resource. Their staff do an amazing job of creating really comprehensive and helpful articles on literally every sexual topic you can imagine. They also provide live chats, advice columns, moderated discussion forums, and SMS-based peer support. This site has helped me on countless occasions, and I refer at-risk queer and trans kids to this site every single day.
Scarleteen is invaluable.
And Scarleteen needs your help.
During their annual donation drive this year, the site was only able to raise $1,500. Only fifty people out of Scarleteen’s 350,000 unique monthly visitors contributed to the fundraising drive.
This means that unless Scarleteen sees a stable, sustained, 50% increase in donations, the site will essentially be forced to go dark on May 1. No more new content, no more advice columns, no more forums, no more live chat, no more SMS support. 
This is devastating.
If Scarleteen goes dark, millions of young people, vulnerable queer and trans teens among them, will lose access to essential, fundamental sexual health resources. We cannot let this happen.
Please, please, please donate to Scarleteen. Consider making a recurring monthly contribution if you feel that this is within your means. Even $5 or $10 a month will go a long way to helping this very, very deserving organization.
And whether or not you’re able to donate at this time, please signal boost this and spread the word. Scarleteen does incredible, very necessary work, and they need our help.

Scarleteen is a vital resource for this blog, please don’t let it go dark.
—BB

fuckyeahsexpositivity:

lalondes:

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE DON’T SCROLL PAST THIS.

Scarleteen is a vital queer and trans positive sexual health resource. Their staff do an amazing job of creating really comprehensive and helpful articles on literally every sexual topic you can imagine. They also provide live chats, advice columns, moderated discussion forums, and SMS-based peer support. This site has helped me on countless occasions, and I refer at-risk queer and trans kids to this site every single day.

Scarleteen is invaluable.

And Scarleteen needs your help.

During their annual donation drive this year, the site was only able to raise $1,500. Only fifty people out of Scarleteen’s 350,000 unique monthly visitors contributed to the fundraising drive.

This means that unless Scarleteen sees a stable, sustained, 50% increase in donations, the site will essentially be forced to go dark on May 1. No more new content, no more advice columns, no more forums, no more live chat, no more SMS support. 

This is devastating.

If Scarleteen goes dark, millions of young people, vulnerable queer and trans teens among them, will lose access to essential, fundamental sexual health resources. We cannot let this happen.

Please, please, please donate to Scarleteen. Consider making a recurring monthly contribution if you feel that this is within your means. Even $5 or $10 a month will go a long way to helping this very, very deserving organization.

And whether or not you’re able to donate at this time, please signal boost this and spread the word. Scarleteen does incredible, very necessary work, and they need our help.

Scarleteen is a vital resource for this blog, please don’t let it go dark.

—BB

(via 30secondstonarnia)

tinyleafs:

thedramaticmurderer:

Ways to combat casual transphobia and cissexism: 

  • Do not gender strangers. Refer to people you do not know with gender neutral pronouns so as to avoid furthering the idea that appearance = gender. 
  • Ask people what their preferred pronouns are when you first meet them. 
  • Shut down people who say that genitals = gender. 
  • Shut down people who use the phrases “two genders” or “opposite gender.” 
  • Also shut down people who use the phrases “two sexes” or “opposite sex” to help our intersex siblings. 
  • Avoid using phrases like “manboobs,” “mangina,” and “girl/woman boner.” 
  • Discourage misgendering as a form of mocking or insult. Also discourage the usage of phrases like “you look like a boy/girl.” 
  • Encourage others to also do these things. 

note on gendering strangers: the ONLY gender-neutral pronouns you can use for someone you don’t know are they/them. Ze/zir/etc pronouns are exclusively nonbinary and referring to a stranger with them is still misgendering!

(via queerturtle)

Up until my second year of high school,
I allowed myself to believe that I wasn’t like other girls
as if there was something fundamentally wrong with other girls
that I had to disinherit.

I used ‘girly girl’ as an insult
like the carefully applied foundation, the long-learned eyeliner
the too-bright lipstick they nearly missed their bus to put on
made them less.

Unlearning was a slow process that I’m still slogging through.
I catch myself raising my eyebrows at a girl on the other side of the room
and have to make myself remember it doesn’t mean shit.
Femininity is not a synonym with stupid or frivolous or weak;
I’ve seen girls who can shiv with a high-heel and look great doing it
or they can sweat and grunt and spit and not give a damn either way.

Your worth is not a win-or-lose depending on if your skirt goes below your knees.

Whether makeup or a bare face or fake eyelashes so heavy you have to squint
a long dress or inch-long skirt or jeans that rip at the knee or shorts that flash your underwear
dreadlocks or metal ear-stretchers or leggings without pants or bedazzled neon nails
bikini or burqa or hair shaved in strips or long plaid shirts
a hoodie that needed washing three weeks ago or dangling earrings or worn out sneakers
a scarf to hide your adam’s apple or sunglasses that cover half your face
braces or glasses or pigtails or a jagged pink mohawk or eighteen clearly visible tattoos-

Wear it as battle armour.

– 'You'll Get Shit For It Anyway,' theappleppielifestyle. 

(Source: theappleppielifestyle, via myhorancanpiercethesky)

“These days, before we talk about misogyny, women are increasingly being asked to modify our language so we don’t hurt men’s feelings. Don’t say, “Men oppress women” – that’s sexism, as bad as any sexism women ever have to handle, possibly worse. Instead, say, “Some men oppress women.” Whatever you do, don’t generalise. That’s something men do. Not all men – just some men.

This type of semantic squabbling is a very effective way of getting women to shut up. After all, most of us grew up learning that being a good girl was all about putting other people’s feelings ahead of our own. We aren’t supposed to say what we think if there’s a chance it might upset somebody else or, worse, make them angry. So we stifle our speech with apologies, caveats and soothing sounds. We reassure our friends and loved ones that “you’re not one of those men who hate women”.

What we don’t say is: of course not all men hate women. But culture hates women, so men who grow up in a sexist culture have a tendency to do and say sexist things, often without meaning to. We aren’t judging you for who you are but that doesn’t mean we’re not asking you to change your behaviour. What you feel about women in your heart is of less immediate importance than how you treat them on a daily basis.

You can be the gentlest, sweetest man in the world yet still benefit from sexism. That’s how oppression works.

yensidlove:

shavenyeti:

sukkanen:

an asexual person can:

  • have sex
  • want to have sex
  • not have sex
  • not want to have sex

just like any other person

As a person who is not asexual, I am a bit confused, and would like some guidance. I am told that asexuality is the lack of sexual desire, or a lack of sexual attraction to others. 

Wouldn’t an asexual that has any desires to have sex be considered a grey-asexual?

not necessarily! there is a difference between desire and attraction

asexuality is typically defined as not experiencing sexual attraction

it doesn’t mean you can’t have sex or can’t want to have sex. many aces experience secondary sexual desire (i.e. sexual activity for reasons other than personal pleasure, such as for the pleasure of a partner) to the point that it’s a commonality- it’s even in the definition if you look into it on AVEN

some asexuals even experience the primary desire (i.e. to have sex for pleasure) bcuz it feels good although they have no sexual attraction, and these aces can define themselves as ace or as gray-a if they want

here’s a quick wiki model from AVEN on the difference between sexual attraction, desire, and how it correlates with sexuality

(via anchovia)

lunors:

technicalrabbit:

santiadragon:

So this just happened and I swear this is just plain bullshit. THIS ARTICLE states that anyone who is LGBT or non christians can be bullied and the state is just cool with that because of “religious beliefs”
I NEED YOUR HELP TUMBLR
Even if you don’t live here please help make it a better place
SIGN THIS PETITION
We need 100,000 signatures by April 26, 2014 to stop this bullshit. Please spread this like wildfire because bullying is a MAJOR problem here and this is just encouraging it. What happened to FREEDOM of religion America?

SIGN THE FUCK OUT OF THIS. Seriously! There’s over a thousand notes and less signatures! I /live/ in TN and this is so not fucking good.Signal boost the fuck out of it.

THERE IS 25,000 OF YOU OUT THERE FOLLOWING ME. IF YOU DONT  TAKE 5 FUCKING MINUTES OUT OF YOUR DAY TO SIGN A GOD DAMN PETITION THAT COULD PREVENT KIDS FROM COMMITTING SUICIDE YOU CAN JUST UNFOLLOW ME RIGHT NOW. DO IT AND REBLOG THIS POST I DONT GIVE A SHIT WHAT BLOG TYPE YOU ARE GO.

lunors:

technicalrabbit:

santiadragon:

So this just happened and I swear this is just plain bullshit. THIS ARTICLE states that anyone who is LGBT or non christians can be bullied and the state is just cool with that because of “religious beliefs”

I NEED YOUR HELP TUMBLR

Even if you don’t live here please help make it a better place

SIGN THIS PETITION

We need 100,000 signatures by April 26, 2014 to stop this bullshit. Please spread this like wildfire because bullying is a MAJOR problem here and this is just encouraging it. What happened to FREEDOM of religion America?

SIGN THE FUCK OUT OF THIS. Seriously! There’s over a thousand notes and less signatures! I /live/ in TN and this is so not fucking good.

Signal boost the fuck out of it.

THERE IS 25,000 OF YOU OUT THERE FOLLOWING ME. IF YOU DONT  TAKE 5 FUCKING MINUTES OUT OF YOUR DAY TO SIGN A GOD DAMN PETITION THAT COULD PREVENT KIDS FROM COMMITTING SUICIDE YOU CAN JUST UNFOLLOW ME RIGHT NOW. DO IT AND REBLOG THIS POST I DONT GIVE A SHIT WHAT BLOG TYPE YOU ARE GO.

(via officialsandyamberg)

holisticsexualhealth:

superqueerartsyblog:

✿ Walking talking queer encyclopedia with a healthy rose-cheeked smile! ✿

Not my responsibility to educate you

holisticsexualhealth:

superqueerartsyblog:

✿ Walking talking queer encyclopedia with a healthy rose-cheeked smile! ✿

Not my responsibility to educate you

(via queerturtle)